The concept of community is a really powerful element in our lives. Quite literally it means "with togetherness" and it does more for us than we tend to give credit. Some anthropologists suggest that community is the primary reason why human beings have not only survived, but thrived as a species. Certainly as an animal, human beings lack many of the acute skills and abilities of physicality to succeed on our own and so by sharing, collaborating and cooperating everyone does better. This is the history of human success.
Think about it. In spite of our individual skills or abilities anyone of us who have experienced success have not realized this totally on our own. Our success is a compilation of people, and experiences with other people that have informed, inspired, challenged, or cajoled us into performance or activity tht lead to the success we have enjoyed. From our parents, to teachers, to coaches, to friends, life is riddled with relationships that form community and make us better people.
It is this reality that has driven social scientists to come to the conclusion that life success is promoted, not just by our individual skills, but more by the social capital we have developed around us. Today researchers are convinced that all good things of life; health, happiness, advancement, achievement, and even life expectancy, are directly related to social capital. Indeed, the term "social capital" is a deliberate effort to remind us that our relationships are tangibly valuable to us.
More, see also know through research and study that the more diverse our social capital, the more we grow or broaden in our perspective of self and life. Quite simply, when we build a relationship with someone who has some differences from us, we become more tolerant, and willing to accept or even respect their difference from us. This is an important, maybe even magical phenomenon because we also know that when people have or experience key elements of difference they are at risk of societal segregation and devaluation. The antidote for devaluation is to be included in the bigger mix, and so with an inclusive agenda for community, we have an interesting and powerful paradox.
To this end, diversity in community becomes an important variable in promoting a better, more successful collection of people. That is, when people who have some significant difference from each other (age, race, lifestyle, disability, poverty, etc.) come together around things they have in common, good things happen for everyone. In this regard, inclusive community should become a goal for all of us.
So, where do we start? How do we make for a better community? It all begins with each of us, individually. Find time, today, to start a conversation in your communities, and promote ways and means for more diverse people to enter into the conversation. In this regard, we all win!